{"id":8345,"date":"2016-06-17T21:56:44","date_gmt":"2016-06-18T05:56:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.oeconomist.com\/blogs\/daniel\/?p=8345"},"modified":"2016-06-18T17:50:58","modified_gmt":"2016-06-19T01:50:58","slug":"toxic-taxonomy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.oeconomist.com\/blogs\/daniel\/?p=8345","title":{"rendered":"Toxic Taxonomy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most of the time, the inability or unwillingness of people to understand the difference between <span style=\"font-style: italic ;\">sex<\/span> and <span style=\"font-style: italic ;\">gender<\/span> is simply a low-level annoyance for me.<span style=\"vertical-align: top ; font-size: smaller ;\">&#91;1&#93;<\/span> But, over the past few days, I have been increasingly irritated by the <em>bigotry<\/em> that this confusion is facilitating.<\/p> <p>Unfortunately, many cultures, including our own, put pressure on people of a particular sex to adopt a particular gender; this is bigotry of one sort. Unfortunately, people of a sex who don't want to be of the socially prescribed gender often develop an active hostility towards those of that sex-gender combination; that is bigotry of another sort.<\/p> <p>People who <em>want<\/em> to be of a given gender but who are not do <em>not<\/em> represent a toxic expression of that gender, because they are not of that gender. Claiming that a non-masculine person were toxically masculine or that a non-feminine person were toxically feminine entails a logical contradiction, regardless of whether the person were a male <em>wanting<\/em> to be masculine or a female <em>wanting<\/em> to be feminine.<span style=\"vertical-align: top ; font-size: smaller ;\">&#91;2&#93;<\/span> And when toxicity results exactly from the fact that a person is <em>not<\/em> of a gender that the person feels that he or she ought to be, the illogic is especially acute.<\/p> <p>Omar Mir Seddique Mateen was certainly toxic, but he lacked at least one of the <em>core<\/em> attributes of masculinity. His desire as a <em>non<\/em>-masculine male to be masculine contributed greatly to his toxicity.<\/p> <p>Whether intentionally or merely thoughtlessly, to use <q>toxic masculinity<\/q> in describing Mateen is a <em>slur<\/em> against masculinity.<span style=\"vertical-align: top ; font-size: smaller ;\">&#91;3&#93;<\/span>  And that slur will come most naturally to those who are implicitly or explicitly hostile to masculinity.<\/p> <p>He simply wasn't of my gender; no one should speak or write as if he were.<\/p> <hr width=\"50%\" align=\"left\" \/> <p><span style=\"vertical-align: top ; font-size: smaller ;\">&#91;1&#93;<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic ;\">Sex<\/span> is a condition of the structures of the body, and associated with reproductive function.  The term <q>gender<\/q> is sometimes used as a foolish mincing term for <span style=\"font-style: italic ;\">sex<\/span>, but I mean here to refer to the set of behavioral characteristics (including r&ocirc;les) that are associated with <span style=\"font-style: italic ;\">sex<\/span> by expectations at the social, familial, and personal level.  The term <q>gender<\/q> is taken by analogy from grammar, as are the terms <q>masculine<\/q> and <q>feminine<\/q>.<\/p> <p><span style=\"vertical-align: top ; font-size: smaller ;\">&#91;2&#93;<\/span> There are sexes other than <span style=\"font-style: italic ;\">male<\/span> and <span style=\"font-style: italic ;\">female<\/span> and genders other than <span style=\"font-style: italic ;\">masculine<\/span> and <span style=\"font-style: italic ;\">feminine<\/span>, but traditional social expectations have included correspondences amongst such sexes and such genders.  Instead, people who do not fit neatly as male or as female have been expected either to seek some sort of treatment to become one of those two sexes (with a masculine gender for males and a feminine gender for females) or to withdraw from society.<\/p> <p><span style=\"vertical-align: top ; font-size: smaller ;\">&#91;3&#93;<\/span> It would be accurate, but misleading, to instead describe his condition as one of <q>toxic <u>non<\/u>-masculinity<\/q>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Most of the time, the inability or unwillingness of people to understand the difference between sex and gender is simply a low-level annoyance for me.&#91;1&#93; But, over the past few days, I have been increasingly irritated by the bigotry that this confusion is facilitating. 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